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Thoughts October 2021


Jeff Schrembs self-photo October 27, 2021

October has always been a painful month for me for a variety of reasons. Historically the months of September through December have brought with them, over decades, great loss. Tragedy. Heartbroken eternally never to be healed. Drastic adverse life changes. But that is not to say that there have not been times, during these months, that I haven’t been blessed beyond comprehension.

My birthday occurs in October and I would rather have my throat slit with a rusted knife than have my birthday celebrated. I just carry on the tradition of my Grandmother and make a German Chocolate Cake with pecan icing while looking forward to the day – week – and the month to pass. From my youngest memory, it has always been this way. And of course, the worst day of my life occurred in October approximately 11 years ago. Touche.

However some of my (beloved) children have birthdays during these months and, like the other 364 days of the year, my thoughts – prayers – hopes – dreams – etc. are with them. Though they may not grasp how much I love them, have loved them, and will forever love them the fact remains that I …do. I miss them terribly.

This stage of my life brings with it far more days behind me than I have left. A fraction of a fraction and that is “ok”. I accept it and my faith in God sustains me all these years. Routinely I feel, in every cell, the years I have lived and at other times I feel much older. I took my health for granted in my youth but man those were the days when I would excel at sports for hours on end and never be sore. Hard to believe most days when the body aches and seemingly has a mind of its own and oh the joy of limited range of motion(s).

2021 has brought with it life changes I never would have imagined as will 2022. Is it really a few months away from 2022? Aaaaaaagggggghhhhhhh. Hash browns.

Fantastic my hand is locking up. Hurrah. Good times.

You take care of yourself and live this life achieving your desires. Using your gifts. Achieving success after success. Hold onto those you love and cherish each day. Never forget to help others even in minuscule ways. Turn to God. Read the bible. Never shy away from your faith. And if someone ever asks you to go to therapy…go. Don’t let pride or excuses get in the way.

May God bless you and ours…always.

I am

Jeff Schrembs

2021 ALL RIGHTS RESREVED

Simpler life & happy Thanksgiving 2019 wishes


Some of the greatest songs I love have lyrics such as these: the heart gets weary, nothing every changes, heartache I knew, always on my mind, you took my one ray of sunshine, there is something wrong here, I just can’t fake it, I wish it would rain, gave me a mountain, etc. What do these songs have in common? Man, I don’t know but they left/leave a lasting impression and trends may come and go but quality man quality can never be substituted. Real voices with real experiences singing real songs. It’s in my DNA and courses through my veins and in some cases has been passed along to my children. Yeah, your welcome.

Back in the 1970’s seems like every girl has the album Tapestry by Carole King. That album, and those songs, were at every dance. At every roller skating rink. And, due to the wonderful technology in those days, on a device the size of a platter and thicker than the California redwoods, known as the 8 track tape. Hey kids give up your modern technology and try listening to songs only on an 8 track. The struggle(s) were…real and yeah we walked to school for miles in the snow, rain, thunderstorms, heat, and guess what? We had to repeat, this what would now qualify for a weekly show on National Geographic, endeavor to get back home. Hurray.

Back to Carole King. I have watched, and re-watched as that is just who I am, the 1971 concert of Carole King and not only did I learn she wrote one of my favorite songs of all time “will you still love me tomorrow” but she sings the hello kitty out of it. But the secret gem is her voice, passion, and throaty remembrance when she sings “up on the roof” co-written by her (by 2 years) ex-husband (note: if you get a chance check out him singing this song and he had a good voice in his own right) the multi-talented songwriter Gerry Goffin. Not to be outdone when she sings “a natural woman””, made infamous by Aretha Franklin, her version is just as honest. Just as soulful. Just as haunting. Just as soul provoking.

Simpler times are part of the title of this post but it is also a reference to life in times past that was life…more abundantly. Much more abundantly and I miss it.

From me to you via YouTube comes the incomparable Carole King raw and beautiful and as a footnote, it took place during the spring of my youth.

Take care and may God bless you

Jeff Schrembs

Elvis Presley TUPELO (1977)


Article via Rolling Stone circa 1977 which I elected to post to get some insight to what the press focused on concerning Elvis in the months after his death. Though this article was “updated” in 2015 it remains an article that Elvis fans had to deal with in September of 1977 and (sadly) includes hundreds of similar articltes since.

September 22, 1977  4:33PM ET by Joe Klein

BIO ELvis birthcertificate blusih

ELvis Prelsey’s offical birth certificate NOT the record of live birth which is a seperate document.

 
THE TWO-ROOM SHACK IS STILL THERE. The East Heights Garden Club looks after it. They make sure the grass is mowed and the bushes trimmed and the paint job respectable. They open the door for a few hours each afternoon, and you can walk through the tiny rooms for a quarter.
The night after Elvis died, people gathered in front of the shack and stared silently at the bouquets of flowers on the porch. The night was soft and moist, and the people spoke in whispers. A surprising number of the cars that pulled into the church parking lot across the street were campers and pickups. Larry Shaw stood off to the side, watching them come and go. He was 22 years old, blond and a local musician. “There’s been people here all night, from all over. You just missed a big shot, the guy who owns the big market down the highway. He was just here, payin’ his respects too,” Larry said. “You know, I keep thinking about little Elvis sitting out on that porch and fooling around with his guitar on a night like this, and his mama sitting in that porch swing there, listening to him. It’s hard to believe he started right there.”
A prim, middle-aged schoolteacher named Sara Wiygul and her daughter Mona, a college student, approached the house. Sara said she had gone to see Elvis at the Tupelo Fair in 1956. “I don’t like the way they’re saying now that he came from poor white trash,” she said, staring at the house. “They were poor all right, but they weren’t trash. If they were trash, he wouldn’t have gotten as far as he did.”
“What was it like at the fair in 1956?” I asked.
“Well,” she hesitated and smiled. “Very exciting.”
“Did people go wild?”
“Yes, I guess you could say they did.”
“Did you?”
“C’mon Ma . . .” Mona said.
“Well uh, not wild, but I enjoyed it.”
A bouncy woman named Pat Nichols, who had dropped by to collect her two sons, said she was also at the fair in 1956 and, “I screamed and hollered, and I’d do it again, too.” She had grown up in the neighborhood and her older brothers played with Elvis. “They all used to ride this pony we had named Dinah. Yes sir, we all grew up here in the ghetto together — and it was a ghetto then, too. Used to be a lot of shacks like this one, but they tore them down. Before they got fancy and started calling this area East Heights, they used to call it East Tupelo and it was the meanest part of town. They all was afraid to come over here, our boys was so mean. Not that they raped or murdered or anything. . . . We was just the most southern part of town, if you get what I’m saying,” and she drove off into the soft night as others arrived to stand vigil at the house.
The drowsy little town Pat Nichols remembered, dappled with loblollies and draped in kudzu vines, is long gone. Less than 6000 people lived in Tupelo when Elvis was born in 1935, and more than 27,000 do now. Even during the Depression, though, the town was a commercial center known for its civic boosterism and its relative moderation when it came to the race issue — clearly a town with a future if the times ever got better. In 1948, just before the boom times began, Vernon Presley found work in Memphis and moved there with his young family, part of the mass migration out of the rural South and into the big cities. But during the past 20 years, the migration has turned around and small cities like Tupelo have flourished. There is an air-conditioned shopping mall downtown now, a string of fancy hotels, an airport and even a couple of Chinese restaurants. Tupelo has become suburbanized and homogenized. If it weren’t for the barbecue stands along the highways, the preponderance of pickup trucks and the way the natives speak, it might easily be New Jersey.
Over in East Heights, most of the shotgun shacks (“You could stand in the front door and shoot a shotgun out the back door.”) have been replaced by graceful brick ranches where the new executives live. The First Assembly of God Church, which Elvis attended as a child, has moved from a shack to a modern, if modest, brick building. The young pastor, Dean Tilley, arrived in town only a few years ago, but he proudly leads visitors down to the basement to see the old pulpit where Elvis did his first singing.
Elvis once said, “We used to go to these religious singin’s all the time. There were these singers, perfectly fine singers, but nobody responded to them. Then there was the preachers and they cut up all over the place, jumpin’ on the piano, movin’ ever’ which way. … I guess I learned from them.” Pastor Tilley, who doesn’t seem quite the type to cut up, said things have calmed down a bit at the church. The Wednesday night revivals have been replaced by Bible classes. They still talk in tongues, though. “It’s language from heaven,” he explained. “You don’t roll around and lose control like some people think. You are perfectly conscious of what you are doing. I can stop it whenever I want, just by closing my mouth.”
The Presley house is just around the corner from the church, on what used to be called Old Saltillo Road but is now Elvis Presley Drive. Mrs. Virginia Boyd, an efficient, gray-haired woman, is the curator of the house. She is director of the East Heights Garden Club, which restored the house in 1971 and has maintained it since then. The club is the sort of organization that might have passed a resolution censuring Elvis 20 years ago, and Mrs. Boyd admits she wasn’t always a fan. “The rock ‘n’ roll movements were different, something we’d never seen before … but he was obviously a fine young man working hard to become successful in his career.”
On the morning they buried him in Memphis, Virginia Boyd opened the little house early and people began to file through. The tiny bedroom where Elvis was born and his twin brother died was in front, and the kitchen in the back, and that was all. On the kitchen table, the Garden Club was selling souvenirs: postcards, bumper stickers, plastic guitars, pennants. Just outside the door, the Tupelo Daily Journal was selling reprints of its special death front page with the banner headline, THE KING IS DEAD. Throughout the morning, florist vans brought flower arrangements, and Mrs. Boyd placed them on the front porch with the others. Several were shaped like guitars, and one was a blue telephone with the words, JESUS CALLING.
Behind the house was the cinderblock Elvis Presley Youth Center and the Elvis Presley Park, much of which had been donated by the man himself. According to the local kids, the youth center had been pretty much a bust in recent years. On this day, though, a Parks Department crew was setting up a podium and folding chairs for a memorial service that would be held in the afternoon. People began to arrive hours before the service was to start, and one of the first to sit down was Rosemary Coggin.
She was small and pert, with bright red hair and jade green eyes. She said she was a farmer’s wife and an Elvis fan from the start. “I was about ten years old when he hit it big. My daddy was a sharecropper — we lived in a house like that,” she said, pointing to the Presley house, “and so I couldn’t get an Elvis skirt and I couldn’t afford to see him at the Tupelo Fair, but I always felt he was singing to me. My mama disapproved of the gyrations, but eventually she came around. It’s funny — I was too young to understand that all those movements were sexy. They just felt good. Now I have daughters and they have crushes on Elvis. One of them said she wanted to put flowers on his grave. My husband doesn’t mind the way we feel; he understands.
“I remember I came in the other day and my boy says Elvis died and I thought he was kidding, and I was about to tell him you shouldn’t kid about things like that when it hit me that he might not be kidding. Then I felt like being alone and listening to his records, but I had to cook dinner. I wanted to grieve alone. That’s why I came here myself today, to grieve alone.”
Then she said, “You know, the Beatles made me feel left out. I got married young and I was pregnant when they arrived. And there they were with their neat little hair and their neat little suits, and there I was all fat and everything. But Elvis never made me feel left out. He always made me feel like I was as pretty as Priscilla. He made a lot of us feel that way. I don’t know if you Northerners can ever really understand how it was for us down here. …”
Rosemary was right. Elvis’ whole routine — part choirboy and part outlaw — had always made more sense in the South. In a way, he and Mississippi had grown up together: from poverty to anathema to commercial respectability in 20 years. Mississippi just seemed a bit more comfortable with respectability than Elvis had.
The Tupelo memorial service was as respectable as those things get — a parade of ministers and politicians — and therefore not very moving. The only good part was when Larry Montgomery, a uniformed policeman, sang “Love Me Tender” and “Precious Memories.” It was a bright, hot afternoon, but not unbearable. The crowd was large, but not overwhelming. The mood was respectful, but there were few tears. Rosemary Coggin had brought a whole box of Kleenex with her, but didn’t use a single one.

Take care and God bless you

 

 

 

Michael Jordan is 56 & I’m 57


No more to add

Chaulking this up to reason # 47,239,814,906,179,446,738 why doing something you truly love, and achieving monetary benefits for oneself and loved ones, is not work but instead is a …blessing

Title says it all

Nada

Zilch

 

Hashbrowns?

 

Take care and God bless you all

Jeff Schrembs

 

 

 

REUNITED (after 40 years)


When I permanently damaged the tendon in my right-hand index finger, which required surgery and in those days repairing a bone/tendon was in its infancy and most surgeons could not undertake the surgery, over 40 years ago I was devastated. A year prior I had inguinal hernia surgery, again most surgeons would not perform the surgery and now the hand that I threw footballs with. Shot basketballs with. Drew with etc. was irreparably damaged even after the surgery as was the area around the inguinal hernia. Both of these injuries were rare and individually and/or collectively adversely effected everything I excelled it was taken from me (or so I thought as did everyone else)

I had been blessed to excel in sports and art. My mother was a great artist and it seemed to easily flow unto the drawing paper from the pencil(s) she used. At around 5th grade I realized that I too had artistic talents. To make this post a summary I was President of the Art Club twice, was accepted and went to a prestigious Art School in Atlanta, and had a large portfolio of exceptional drawings. Many of which stayed at my Mothers home when I went off to college.

Through the years I have mourned the loss of many of my possessions including a very large 24×36 portrait drawing of my high school girlfriend. I had it framed, matted, and topped off with acid-resistant glass. I got many accolades about this drawing and when I gave it to her she was very happy. Her mother was speechless a memory I old till this day as sadly she recently passed away. Later on, her Father made a positive comment about it as it hung in a place of prominence in their home. Her parents I adored and have the utmost respect for them and my girlfriend’s brother Jay

I had reached out to their family, over a period of years, to ask if I could have a copy made as I considered it one of my favorites/best. Somehow my mother got it and had an 8×10 copy made and unknowingly she sent it to me recently and I was blown away to see it, even if it was dimensionally smaller, again and it brought back a lot of memories. Since my children have never seen this drawing, along with so many others, I opted to share it on this blog.

Note – I had to WATERMARK this drawing, as I have all my others, to protect my artwork from being “stolen” and/or used by others when in fact I created every line. Every shadow. Every highlight. Every eyelash. I am proud of this drawing and blessed that after these 40 years.  BUT the scan does not do justice to the original nor my high school girlfriend but it does capture the overall drawing even though it appears here to be so much darker.

WM LIsa Yale DRAWING I did in 1979

As always comments will be read and appreciated in confidentially

Take care and God bless you

Jeff Schrembs.

Running in potholes


Nightmare. Websters defines it as; Definition of nightmare. 1 : an evil spirit formerly thought to oppress people during sleep. 2 : a frightening dream that usually awakens the sleeper. 3 : something (such as an experience, situation, or object) having the monstrous character of a nightmare or producing a feeling of anxiety or terror.

Well ladies and gentlemen one can have a nightmare during the day such as been the case for far too long. However, thanks to my God given will to confront a nightmare is the recipe for waking up to a new day with less drama and stress. One where the sunlight seems more beautiful. The clouds dance in the bluest of blue days. The air smells not of pollen or pollution but of life. Or the patterns of the wind with that “after rain” scent.


Dont let yesterday use up too much of today

I have some upcoming medical procedures, tests, etc. but I will awaken these days with a calm. With a focus. With unrelenting love for my sons and my little girl.

Man, it seems like I had been running in potholes causing all days to be painful mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. and I am very thankful to my therapist of 8 years and my Psychiatrist of 6 years for battling cancer, Parkinson’s, PIDD, and other abnormalities seriously take their tolls in every imaginable way.

To break ones spirit. To dampen ones resolve to continue on with the knowledge that I pray for my children – their children – their mothers – and their mothers family. I always will. I think God for each moment even when I am locked in torturous pain. Even when my mind says my eyes can’t possible produce any more tears and yet through bloodshot eyes…they do, It is the soul that has been hurt and the side effect is tears.

And now that I have taken reasonable steps to ensure I have protected locks on my laptop, tablets, iPhone, etc.. As this dawn breaks forth I am thankful.

Lastly I’m going to have to get some new shoes that should allow me to expertly use my athletic skills (by the way…where did they go?) not fall into potholes of all shapes, forms, intents, etc. At almost 56 years on this earth, in 2 weeks AAAAAGGGGGGHHHH, I think with the proper outlook, support, my ever handing reading glasses, and some smooth Nike’s I will be able to see the potholes beforehand which I believe with each passing day will become less of a hardship. Less of a nightmare. And less reactive approaches to things/life.

God has blessed me all my life including these last two decades of life. Growing up I never believed I would live past 30 or 35. I shall make the most of these days, weeks, months, and years for after all if I don’t then the status quo will remain and I think it is time for some true, and beneficial, resolution. Man, it’s been far too long.

Enjoy your weekend.

Take care and may God bless you and yours… always.

Wishing everyone a blessed Yom Kippur


Yom Kippur 2018 began in the evening of
Tuesday, September 18
and ended in the evening of
Wednesday, September 19

YOM Kipur 2018

Yom Kippur—the Day of Atonement—is considered the most important holiday in the Jewish faith. Falling in the month of Tishrei (September or October in the Gregorian calendar), it marks the culmination of the 10 Days of Awe, a period of introspection and repentance that follows Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year.

Many of the best people I have ever had the privilege to meet, form relations, etc. are Jewish. For those in my family, extended or not, I wish you a blessed day of celebration, praise, acknowledging God/Jesus etc.

God made us all and I have always believed we should respect his works. There is so much in this life that sears permanent scars in ones mind, heart and soul but there is far more beautiful, holy, and wonderous things from God from the smallest plant to the largest ocean to the unique stars that permanent the nighttime sky.

Take care and may God bless you and yours always.

Attuned to the soul


An incredibility beautiful song.